About

Hi, I'm Lana

Queer, kinky, and a little bit woo-woo.

I’m a Relationship and Dating Coach for people who are done with half-hearted connections, and who want to start building relationships that actually feel good. I hold a Master’s degree in Psychology, I’m a certified coach, and I’ve walked this same journey myself.

I get it. I really do! I’ve been married, then engaged again. I’ve dated, I’ve thought it was love, I’ve fallen for potential. I’ve poured energy into trying to make something work (that was never going to), and I’ve stayed in connections that left me feeling lonely and exhausted.

I used to look back on past relationships and think "WTF was I thinking?"! But now I know what was really pulling me to those places. I’ve gone within, I’ve faced the patterns, and I’ve learnt how to shift them.

Now, I help you break the cycles that keep you settling, and show you how to build relationships rooted in truth, self-worth, and real connection.

With clarity, compassion, and no BS, we'll rewrite your relationship scripts so that you can experience more love, and more connection - whatever your relationship status.

If you’ve lost yourself in love, stayed too long in the wrong relationships, or feel like you're constantly giving more than you get - I see you. And I’m here to walk alongside you towards clarity, courage and connection.

What Working With Me Looks Like

This isn’t about other people. It’s about you.

But it’s not about fixing you, because you were never broken.

My work is about reconnecting you with yourself, so you can finally start connecting with others from a place of self-awareness, confidence, and truth.

Through courses and 1:1 coaching, we’ll explore your relationship patterns, your emotional landscape, and your core values. We’ll strip away the stories, beliefs and fears that have kept you stuck, and build a foundation of self-respect, emotional intelligence, and conscious choice.

We're not just going to revisit your struggles over and over again. I actually want to see change. Yes, I'll hold space - a safe, confidential and inclusive one - for you to share whatever's on your heart. But I'll also guide you to an awareness of your own patterns - and your own wisdom about what you need. I'll share tools to help you shift what needs to be shifted, then I'll let you decide which ones feel right for you.

Whether you're single, dating, or in a relationship that no longer feels good, this work is about breaking patterns, building connection, and creating relationships that don’t cost your soul.